NUM324 See [[EXOD622]] Exodus 22:1 bloodguilt AMJV 119

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NUM325 Causing someone to sin is worse than killing him. The Midrash notes that while there is a positive command to oppress the Midianites, who caused the Jewish people to sin, there is a prohibition against abhorring the Egyptians, although they tried to destroy the Children of Israel. From here we learn the principle that is worse to cause someone to sin than to kill him. If someone kills another person, he takes away life in this world. But if someone causes another person to sin, he takes away eternal life in the world to come. (Bamidbar Rabbah 21:4)

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NUM326 Greater is Torah than the cohen's realm and than royalty: for royalty is acquired with thirty attainments, and the cohen's realm with twenty-four, while the Torah is acquired by forty-eight things. And they are: [21] by long-suffering patience; Pirkei Avot, Perek VI, mishnah 6. Whether you are a learner or a teacher, this quality is greatly needed. When a passage in the Talmud is perplexing, do not give up at once, in exasperation or despair. Try a little patience and persevere: go over it again and again; look up additional commentaries. Have patience, and you will ultimately see the light of understanding. Similarly, a teacher should never lose his aplomb or patience with his students. Often they can irritate and infuriate. Yet he should be ready to repeat his lesson again and again until it has been understood. It was Hillel, himself sweet-tempered, who warned in the second perek (mishnah six) that "a quick-tempered person cannot teach." ... Scripture tells: When the Hebrew soldiers returned, having vanquished the Midianites, "Moses was angry with the officers," etc. for sparing the enemy's treacherous women. Then, we find, El'azar the cohen explained to the soldiers the Divine laws for cleansing both war-booty metals and themselves from ritual impurity. Moses could not state these laws, says the Talmud: In his anger he forgot them! (Numbers 31:12-24. T.B. Pesahim 66b). And anger does worse things to the ordinary man: "He who has long-suffering patience," counsels the wise Solomon, "has great understanding; but a short-tempered person exults folly" (Proverbs 14:29).

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NUM327 R. Chisda said: If one argues with his teacher, it is as if he would argue with the Shechinah, as it is written: who strove against Moses and Aaron … when they strove against the Lord" (Sanhedrin 110a)

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NUM328 [O]n a personal level, each person has to choose the path he or she wants to lead as a Jew. Just because parents have told children what is right and set an example for them is no guarantee that children will follow. At one point everyone must decide for himself or herself. This is expressed in the Mishnah, which says that the Torah is not an automatic inheritance (Avot 2:12). There are those who do not follow in the Torah path even if their parents did. Even in the Bible, many great leaders (Moses, Joshua, Samuel) had children that were nothing out of the ordinary and did not follow the greatness of their parents. But it works both ways. The sons of Korach did not follow in the evil ways of their father, who rebelled against Moses, as they repented and did not die [this verse]. King David even composed a psalm said by or in honor of the sons of Korach (Psalm 48). This idea, that there are no guarantees that children will follow in the religious path of their parents, is alluded to in an enigmatic phrase of the beginning words of every Amidah prayer. The prayer begins by saying that we bless our God and the God of our fathers. Since Judaism believes in only one God, this double phrase must refer to the same God. Why not suffice with just "our God"? It has been said that this shows that each person has a dual relationship with God. A parent who teaches a child to believe in God and follow Jewish tradition is represented by "God of our fathers." But there comes a time in every Jew's life when he or she must make a choice to accept God for himself or herself. This is "our God." Hence, each person has to make his or her own moral choices in life, irrespective of upbringing.

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NUM329 Despite the unity of Jacob's family, the rivalry and competition between the tribes did not diminish later in the desert. When Moses wished to appoint seventy new Judges to be the Sanhedrin, the highest Jewish Court, he was fearful that if he appointed even one more judge from one tribe (six) while some of the other tribes have one judge fewer (five), those tribes would be angry at Moses and feel like losers of the competition. Since with exactly seventy judges not all the twelve tribes could receive six judges (two tribes would necessarily have five), Moses was forced to conduct a lottery so that the competition would be minimized and the appointment of judges would seem equitable to all, and not a decision by Moses, which would anger the less enfranchised tribes (Sanhedrin 17a). Similarly, in deciding which tribe would permanently receive which part of the land of Israel, there was great competition as well. God was aware of this competition and thus instructed Moses to conduct a lottery to determine not only which tribe would receive which section of land, but also which family within each tribe would receive which parcel of property [this and next verse; Midrash, Yalkut Shimoni, Beraishit 22:98].

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NUM330 See [[NUM168]] Numbers 15:32 man DORFFLOV 65

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NUM331 See [[DEUT934]] Deuteronomy 18:22 prophet Deuteronomy 40-1

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NUM332 Observe the laws of inheritance. Key concepts: So that people realize that the world and everything in it belongs to its Creator, Who watches over all of His works and wants only good for them. Due to His goodness, the Creator helps people to earn their livelihood and acquire wealth and property. He sends His blessings continuously, without interruption, so a man's wealth and property are passed down to his children after him. When a man dies leaving behind no son or daughter, it is fitting that Heaven's blessings go to the man's closest blood relative, for perhaps that relative’s merit or the merit of a common ancestor caused the blessing to come. Alternatively, perhaps the deceased received the blessing because of things that he learned from his closest blood relative, and for that reason his relative inherits him.

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NUM333 The essential reason for most quarrels is a basic human shortcoming: it is extremely difficult for people to accept opinions that differ from their own. Rabbeinu Asher writes, "Do not be unyielding, but rather, bend your will for the sake of others (Orchos Chaim). This quality is exemplified by Rachel Imeinu, who informed her sister Leah of the secret signs that Yaakov will use in order to identify his chosen wife Rachel (as Jacob suspected that Leah might exchange Leah for Rachel.) By doing this, she saved Leah from shame and embarrassment, but lost her chosen fiancé (Derech Eretz Zuta, ch. 1). Everyone is Different. The inherent obstacle in putting this concept into practice is that values and opinions vary from one individual to the next; as the Sages say, "People's opinions are as diverse as their facial features" (Midrash Rabbah, Bamidbar 21:2). Moshe Rabbeinu attached enormous importance to the quality of leaders being understanding of people, as expressed in the verse, "May Hashem, the "God of all spirits and of all flesh, appoint a person to lead the congregation" [this verse]. The Midrash explains that Moshe prayed that his successor be endowed with the ability to understand and tolerate each Jew's personality (Tanchuma, parashas Pinchas). Yalkut Shimoni offers a similar interpretation, explaining that Moshe prayed that his successor's soul be large enough to accommodate the different personalities of six hundred thousand souls, a quality he deemed essential for the future leader of the Jewish people. (This quality will also be shared by the Moshiach.). The Rashba explains that the reason why the Sages stressed that "people's opinions differ" is in order to emphasize one's obligation to accept opinions that differ from one's own.

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