GEN1163 … we are now in position to understand the following passage found in Chazal
Genesis Rabbah 59:7: “[The verse says,] ‘And Hashem blessed Avraham with everything’ [this verse]. This means that He granted him mastery over his
yetzer hara.” The Midrash states further
Genesis Rabbah 59:8: “[The verse says] ‘And Avraham said to his servant … who controlled all that was his’
Genesis 24:2. This means that he [his servant Eliezer] ruled over his
yetzer hara just as he [Avraham] did.” This is astonishing! How could Eliezer have attained the same level of perfection on his own that came to Avraham by way of a blessing? … we can explain that Eliezer’s mastery was in the realm of
middos [character trait – AJL] subjugation [whereas Avraham mastered middos rectification]. We see this from the continuation of the midrash (59:9): “[The verse states,] ‘The servant said to him, “Perhaps the woman shall not wish to follow me to this land; should I take your son [Yitzchak] back to the land from which you departed?”
Genesis 24:5. Concerning this, it is written, ‘Canaan, the scales of deceit are in his hand, who loves to cheat’
Hosea 12:8. [Says the midrash,] ‘Canaan,’ this is Eliezer. ‘The scales of deceit are in his hand,’ for he sat and weighed [considered] whether his daughter was fitting or not fitting [as a wife for Yitzchak]. ‘To cheat the beloved one’ (ibid.) [means] to cheat the most beloved one in the world, namely Yitzchak. He said, ‘Perhaps the maiden will not want … and I will give him my daughter.’” One who has merited the virtue of
middos rectification has nothing to do with the yetzer hara and corrupt character traits, and he has no affinity for them. However, someone who has only attained the level of
middos subjugation is still subject to the desires of his
yetzer hara and he loves them – but, nevertheless, resists them. Moreover, even if one who has not attained
middos rectification evaluates his path – in keeping with the verse: “Weigh the course of your foot, and all your ways will be established”
Proverbs 4:26 – nevertheless, his every step is entangled with misjudgment. The reason for this is because the forces of desire inject their poison into his intellectual faculties, blinding the eyes of the wise (cf.
Exodus 23:8 and
Deuteronomy 16:19). OHRYIS 323-4
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