LEV1006 Do not wrong one another with words. Our Sages give us many warnings about this matter, for we must be very careful never to cause people pain or embarrassment. The Midrashim are replete with stories to drive home this important point of ethics. One should always be sensitive to others’ feelings and guard one’s tongue so that nothing one says might cause even a trace of embarrassment to anyone, for the Torah is very particular about this matter. People are offended and embarrassed very easily and care more about their honor than their money. It is impossible to enumerate all that can cause pain and embarrassment to people, but each of us must be careful about this matter, for even if someone harms his fellow through a subtle hint, Hashem is aware of it. Even regarding minors, we must be very careful not to scold them too harshly. Not verbal abuse but constructive criticism is required, so that they learn proper behavior. Even with respect to one's own children and the members of his household, one must exercise extreme caution. By avoiding causing undue pain with one's words, one attains life, blessing and honor. Key concepts: To promote peace and harmony. Great is peace, for through it great blessings come into the world. Strife causes only woe and numerous curses and stumbling blocks arise from it.