142 Torah Book & Portion, Book of Exodus, Yitro (Exodus 18:1-20:23), Source Book Keys, DORFFLOV EXODUS | 20:12 honor — EXOD414 Abuse of elderly or infirm parents is, un... EXOD414 Abuse of elderly or infirm parents is, unfortunately, a growing phenomenon in our society, especially as people live longer and suffer from the mental and physical disabilities of old age. The Jewish tradition has no room for maltreatment of parents. Parents, of course, are human beings and are, therefore, protected under the provisions of Jewish law prohibiting assault and demanding monetary remedies for it. The Torah, though, makes parents special. It specifically prohibits striking one's father or mother, and it prescribes the death penalty for one who does so. [Exodus 21:15; compare B. Sanhedrin 84b. If the child did not cause a bruise while striking his or her parents, however, the child is liable for the damages of assault rather than for the death penalty; see M. Bava Kamma 8:3]. That leaves little room for doubt about the Torah's view of striking parents. If any more grounding is sought for prohibiting parental abuse, it would come from the Torah's positive commandments to honor and respect one's parents. Share Print Source KeyDORFFLOVVerse20:12Keyword(s)honorSource Page(s)171-2 Switch article EXODUS | 20:12 honor — EXOD410 … children must bury their parents and fu... Previous Article EXODUS | 20:12 honor — EXOD416 Classical Jewish texts understand [the] c... Next Article