138 Torah Book & Portion, Book of Genesis, Vayeira (Genesis 18:1-22:24), Source Book Keys, AMEMEI GENESIS | 22:2 love — GEN1128 A mishnah [Ethics of the Father... GEN1128 A mishnah [Ethics of the Fathers 1:6] … uses a strange verb in referring to becoming friends. In quoting the statement of Yehosuah Ben Prachya about how to properly behave in life, the mishnah says “acquire for yourself a friend.” But the literal translation is “Buy yourself a friend.” How does one buy a friend? Is friendship, then, a function of wealth? It is clear that the means of buying referred to in the mishnah is not money. Rather, just as a money transaction is, in reality, an exchange of money for a good or service, so, too, a friendship is an exchange. The material of exchange in a friendship is mutual experience and giving to the other person. Thus, a friendship is “bought” through an exchange of give and take, a giving of oneself and a receiving from the other person. The word for friend, chaver, comes from the Hebrew verb lechaber, to unite to blend together. Thus, two friends unite into one by each giving of himself or herself to acquire that friendship. Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsh Commentary to this verse claims that the meaning of the word for love or friendship, ahav, is derived from two Aramaic words meaning “I give.” Thus, friendship implies giving more than taking. AMEMEI 77 Share Print Source KeyAMEMEIVerse22:2Keyword(s)loveSource Page(s)(See end of excerpt) Switch article GENESIS | 22:2 beloved — GEN1127 See [[GEN1000]] Genesis 18:19 way AGUS 32... Previous Article GENESIS | 22:2 offering — GEN1129 See [[GEN1126]] Genesis 22:1 words GOODSO... Next Article