GEN1115 Hesed … generally implies a relation based on reciprocal obligation. Hesed is debt to be paid, as in the phrase gemilut hasadim.   The particular individual concerned may not be in a position to pay back but it is understood that hesed applies to acts that bind society together in a relation of mutuality. Now this hesed relation is possible and even mandatory between Israel and other nations, that is, Jew and non-Jew.  The world as a whole is said to be built on hesed (Psalm 89:3). Thus, Abimelech addresses Abraham: “According to the hesed I have done to thee thou shalt do to me.” And Abraham swears accordingly [this verse].   Coming to our own time this represents a high standard of international relationships but it is within the bounds of the humanly possible.   To expect us to love our enemies is outside the bounds o the humanly possible.   And Judaism does not require it.   The specific command, “Thou shalt love they neighbor as thyself” Leviticus 19:18 has particular reference to the Jewish people.   FOXMJE 59