DEUT755 The Rabbis taught: When an orphan is ready to take a wife, first there is secured for him a house, a bed, and all the necessary utensils, and only then, a wife, as it is written: "sufficient for his lack, which is lacking to him": "Sufficient for his lack" -- this is a house; "which is lacking" -- this is a bed and table; "To him" -- this is a wife, as it is written (Genesis 2:18):"I shall make to him a help" (Ketuvoth 67b)
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